Boundaries and Bonds

No relationship comes that easily without having a few boundaries tested along the way. Sometimes you have to give a little to get a little, but pick your battles. Ignore the little things, and stick to your principles the the big things. For example, letting your partner get away with staying at the bar with […]

Fake It Till You Make It

There comes a time in everyone’s life where you will be faced with those odd moments where it gets worse before it gets better. Like when you bump into your ex when you’re not looking your best and he swans into a club with his latest squeeze on his arm. Sometimes pride rises to the […]

Bad Boys Be Gone

A tip from Robbie Williams, via his new single called Go Gentle (for his daughter). He says he hopes she never meets someone like him, because he was so impossible, but warning her about men and letting her know that he will always be there for her.  For women from a man’s perspective, as to how not to take nonsense from men. […]

Get a Life

It is a fact that singles put more time and effort into keeping in shape, getting out and about and spending time with friends. Then, when we meet someone new and get involved in a relationship, all too often we get lost in our partner or the role of parent. As important as it  is to […]

Change the Pattern

If you want to change the type of partner you attract, or the relationship you have, change the pattern. Drop your old habits, replace them with new ones and the rest will follow.

Do NOT Reward Bad Behaviour

Rewarding bad behaviour doesn’t work. Praising good behaviour does. So ignore the bad and promote the positive. It works with animals and children, why not try the same thing with your partner or that person you’re interested in?